Ex and I separated 2 years ago, divorce was final in September 2009 and today I finally changed my name on all my bank accounts! I had to wait until I could change it at the Social Security office and then the DMV, but today I'm DONE!!! It was so liberating! The funny thing was that as I was making all of the calls, I would say that I wanted to change my name on my account and they would congratulate me on my marriage. I would say, "Actually it's my divorce." They always felt the need to say how sorry they were...I even got one, "Oh you poor thing!"...Don't they know that they should be congratulating me?