MIL is already hesitating about making a healthy cake for ds first bday. I told her I would make it but she says she wants to. She's worried nobody else at the party will like it and it will be too difficult to make. I looked up a couple recipes on line but some of the ingredients seemed like something she would consider "exotic" lol. She loves sugar and really she's worried that SHE won't like it. My daughter is very sugar sensitive and she will of course be eating some cake too and I don't want 2 different cakes my daughter is old enough to understand that she would be "different". And ds has never been exposed to lots of sugar so I don't want him to be sick on his first bday.