[oceanbaby]

I'm at a loss lately as to what to do with both kids during the day. Ds2 is not walking yet, and doesn't really like to be in the sling.

I try reading to both of them, but ds2 just tries to grab and eat the book, and squirms all over. If we try to play trains or blocks, ds2 just tries to grab whatever ds1 has, or knocks things over.

Any ideas for activities or projects that I can do with both of them?

 

[faythe]

We build towers for Evie to knock over. The girls have tea parties and pretend to feed Eva, they all think it's hilarious. Cars are another good one that everyone can do. They all like to play with balls, as well. When reading books I put the baby on the floor and let her hang on my legs while her sisters sit in my lap. That way we are able to get through a story with no eating or ripping of pages, everyone can see the pictures, and best of all, no one cries.

The truth is, most of this stuff only lasts 5 minutes, tops. Then the 4yo's are anxious to do something more involved, usually something that involves tiny pieces.

 

[delicious]

the bathtub is fun for both my kids. very shallow bathwater, though. lots of cups so no one has to take anything from anyone else...

also if you are very brave and your 11mo doesn't put EVERYTHING into their mouth, painting. my kids will sit there and paint together for a good 30 minutes and then while i clean up ds, dd will stay and finish painting.

playing with bowls of water and paintbrushes on the sidewalk. ds usually just tips over the water, though, so i give him smaller cups.

 

[be11ydancer]

Go to the park. Also, get a package of balloons and a balloon pump. Blow up lots of them and set them loose in the backyard (supervised of course). They'll go nuts and both will be entertained. Also, try watercolor painting. It's not too messy compared to other painting. Even for the little one. And of course, don't feel like they have to be involved in activities together all the time, either. That's a tough age gap.

 

[MomInCalifornia]

Blowing bubbles...older kid can help blow them, and they can both pop them

Balloons (supervise carefully) or beach balls to toss around