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Hey Ladies, thank you for reading this.


Baby is almost 1, and we still have not recovered our finances...right when I was about 3 months pregnant we lost everything , all our savings due to financial emergency after emergency....

Including being attacked by someone at 5 months pregnant, almost losing the baby, and spending the last year and change in court trying to get justice !.

not to mention I was 2500 miles from my family in the Bay Area for 8 whole months, I just came back to Miami area , so this whole time it was just me and my man 100% of the time with the baby, no time for ourselves.

We just been barely making ends meet. We make good money but it’s always gone because something is always going wrong....

Right before the shutdown we were making headway to rebuilding ourselves...then the shutdown happened and we are still struggling. And we have always spent below our means, used budgets etc.

When we planned our baby, we were going to do engagement right around the 3 month mark , and now as we speak I’m dealing with a flooded house! Like I’m starting to feel this will never work out for us. It’s basically like I might as well get a courthouse wedding and be done with it.

I love my partner and baby. I don’t mean to sound ungrateful. But I really feel so ashamed deep down for how everything turned out. Just need some support ...cuz most people assume when everything goes wrong that you didn’t save or plan properly. And we did all of those things but life had other plans.
 
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