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Okay, I realize that most people don't mean any harm and are really just being nosy but since we announced our second pregnancy (due Nov. 10) several people have asked 'Was it planned?" or "Were you trying?" My ds is just 9 months and it did take us a little by surprise but seriously I think this is kind of a personal and not to mention rude question to ask. It's kind of like when someone's expecting multiples and people ask if they were using fertility drugs. How does anyone feel like it's their business. Besides, even if we were surprised my husband and I are beyond thrilled so I hate replying with a "No, it was an accident." Anybody else dealing with this? What do you say?