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My husband and I are 21 we have 3 kids ( we had our 1st at 18, 2nd at 19 and our 3rd and 20) after our 3rd everyone around us told us how crazy we were or would just give us nasty looks. So after awhile we had convinced ourselves that we didn't want anymore kids and we were trying to find a way to get our insurance to pay to get my husband or I "fixed" with no luck because we are so young. Anyway, in my heart I didn't want to do this because I knew I wanted another baby. So the other day my DH, the kids and I were at the park and out of the blue I asked what he would say if I said I wanted another baby..............He got a huge smile on his face and we haven't stopped talking about how excited we are that we are going to have another baby and how glad we are that we were unable to go through with the getting "fixed" thing.
Anyway, once we started telling our friends and family that we want another baby all we have been hearing is how stupid we are or been getting some of the worst looks I have ever seen in my life. I am getting really upset because my husband gets embarrsed very easy. So my DH will start to go along with what everyone else is saying when we are talking to them but when we are alone he goes on and on about wanting to try and get pregnant this month and how excited he is. So I can't understand why he wont just stand by me and our decision when we are talking to friends and family.
Sorry I just wanted to vent. I am just so angry with the way everyone is acting about out dicsion to have another baby.
Oh I also wanted to know of any books or site I can go to, to help improve our odds of having a girl ( we have 2 boys and a girl so we are hoping to even things out).
Thanks for letting me vent,
Maggie
My husband and I are 21 we have 3 kids ( we had our 1st at 18, 2nd at 19 and our 3rd and 20) after our 3rd everyone around us told us how crazy we were or would just give us nasty looks. So after awhile we had convinced ourselves that we didn't want anymore kids and we were trying to find a way to get our insurance to pay to get my husband or I "fixed" with no luck because we are so young. Anyway, in my heart I didn't want to do this because I knew I wanted another baby. So the other day my DH, the kids and I were at the park and out of the blue I asked what he would say if I said I wanted another baby..............He got a huge smile on his face and we haven't stopped talking about how excited we are that we are going to have another baby and how glad we are that we were unable to go through with the getting "fixed" thing.
Anyway, once we started telling our friends and family that we want another baby all we have been hearing is how stupid we are or been getting some of the worst looks I have ever seen in my life. I am getting really upset because my husband gets embarrsed very easy. So my DH will start to go along with what everyone else is saying when we are talking to them but when we are alone he goes on and on about wanting to try and get pregnant this month and how excited he is. So I can't understand why he wont just stand by me and our decision when we are talking to friends and family.
Sorry I just wanted to vent. I am just so angry with the way everyone is acting about out dicsion to have another baby.
Oh I also wanted to know of any books or site I can go to, to help improve our odds of having a girl ( we have 2 boys and a girl so we are hoping to even things out).
Thanks for letting me vent,
Maggie