My ds is 2.5 yo and bf frequently throughout the night. Sleep is a big issue in general but dh and I have just learned to deal with it and have stuck to our routine. It works for us. However, ds needs to have ear tube surgery later this month and cannot have anything by mouth after midnight before his surgery. I am really dreading this because I know that neither one of us will get any rest because he will be crying all night. I have chosen to let him wean himslef whenever he is ready and he shows NO sign of being ready. Even one night will be hard, I fear. ANy suggestions or personal experineces with this will help.