okay, I was in the prodromal labor club and had been for a week and half or so. but, Friday night my son had a seizure (he is okay) took him to the er, did a CT scan, all that, while in the hospital i told the baby i wasn't ready for her right now, please wait for a bit and have had *maybe* 8-10 ctx in the days since then. but, it looks like DS will have to have surgery and prob this week or early next week (just ear tubes, not a major surgery but still, my baby is having surgery) so now, instead of wanting this baby to come out i need this baby to stay IN for at least the next 9ish days. she will be much easier to handle thru DS' surgery in my belly as opposed to out. so, anyone have any ideas? My next OB apt is wednesday and he had said he was going to check me then but i am going to refuse, i know even just a dilation check can irritate the cervix and start thins up, i told DH no more sex (i think he was relieved <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/orngtongue.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Stick Out Tongue">) any other ideas?