I am due on July 4th (although I think it's going to be later than that). Anyway, I have a wonderful 3 year old son now and am trying to prepare myself for the new little one. I did not do well with breastfeeding the first time. Mostly I lacked support because whenever I got tired I had mil handing me formula and saying how much easier it was. After 4 months of that I gave up and have been bothered by it ever since. This time I've done a lot more research, etc. I'm more prepared mentally. Last time I took a hospital class and that was it. I ended up having a c-section also. This time we are attempting vbac. My question is, I know that it will be harder in a way this time with having ds to take care of as well. Any suggestions on ways to include him or make it an easier transition? He will play by himself, but most of the time he tries to pull me in (not that I mind that now, but at least at first I know that won't be possible). Just looking for any ideas you experienced ladies have. Thanks!