I couldn't believe it. I'm so irritated right now. My mom had been watching dd while I got some rest. We started talking about the fact that I would have to go to work part-time soon b/c dh's neurological disorder is progressing very fast. He is trying to continue work until dd is at least a year old before going on disability. We wanted to make it a little easier for dd to go 5 hours w/out nursing. We figured 1 year would be easier then now. She is 7 months old. My mom made the comment "Oh, I think it best you just stop bf'ing at that point. She'll be too old." I never thought I would get that. Especially the way she said it. Here tone was one of telling me that this is what I was going to do. I was taken completely off guard, and told her I planned to let dd self-wean, and had no plans of stopping. She made some comment about me nursing 'til dd was 12. I'm not only irritated at her, but at myself. I didn't even comfront her. I just let it pass.