Hello, I'm still trying to figure out all the in and outs of this online community. I've been posting on hipmama but a friend reccomended this. My child is seven and half months old and thirty pounds. I'm going through a transitional phase right now. I'm deciding if I really want to stay with my boyfriend, the father of my child. Deciding the financial losses that will come with this break (if indeed it happens). The physical help he gives me with the child. I'm just trying to look at all sides of this problem. Well what really got me going was talking to another mamma about the help or lack of help from or boyfriends and the lack of love we feel for both. It really made me stop and wonder why I'm still here. Probably because it's easy to stay stuck in a situation. Sorry, about the rant.