I'm SO glad to hear I'm not the only one struggling to find a good solution to this problem! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile"> I'm experimenting like crazy right now, so I'll let you know what's worked for us so far and, when we get the rest of what I've bought in the mail to try out, if that does any better, LOL! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/wink1.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="wink1"><br><br>
I'm still new to CDing, started about a month ago with my 21 month old son and plan to fully CD our new baby when she arrives in July. I love it and am so glad I made the switch! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/orngbiggrin.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="orange big grin"><br><br>
I also have a 5 1/2 yr. old son and a 3 1/2 yr. old daughter who are both potty-trained but not night-dry. We've been using pull-ups for ages, but when I switched to cloth with Cameron, both of my older two thought it was so cool they specifically ASKED me if they could wear cloth at night, too. How could I refuse that? <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/wink1.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="wink1"> So I started with my "experimentation," LOL.<br><br>
I have a few L FBs I got second-hand that also fit my DD (she's only 28 lbs. at almost four, and only 6 lbs. heavier than her younger brother, yikes!) and I've been stuffing these with 12 layers of hemp jersey or a premium pf and 6 layers of hemp and we haven't had any leaks so far. She is NOT a heavy night wetter, though. Also, although the FBs fit her in terms of waist/weight, they are a bit short in the rise b/c she's tall and skinny and I have to be careful to stuff them with fairly non-bulky materials or the snaps won't stay snapped! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/redface.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Embarrassment"><br><br>
For 5 1/2 yr. old DS, who weighs around 41 lbs. and is a very heavy night wetter, I'm still working on an "ideal" solution. I don't have any XL FB to try out on him -- they seem to be pretty hard to come by used -- but I do have 1 L FB second which is really more XL-sized, and if I stuff that puppy to the gills with pfs and hemp, LOL, it won't leak. However, when it's that stuffed, DS complains bitterly about the bulkiness of it, so that's an issue.<br><br>
I have also tried a BSWW in XL with a snappied premium pf (I have some toddler pfs coming in the mail soon, and can't wait, b/c trying to get to attach a premium pf onto a 5 yr. old is bordering on the ridiculous! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/eyesroll.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="roll">) and several hemp doublers and he peed right through that last night, sigh... I obviously need to add more absorbency, but then we get back into the bulkiness complaints again.<br><br>
I've got 3 XL HHs and a dozen toddler pfs coming to me in the mail, and if I could find second-hand overnite trainers to try out, I'll get some of those, too. I'm just not willing to shell out tons of money on them when there are no guarantees that they will be absorbent enough, kwim? Also, I don't need my overnight diapering system to pull up/down, b/c they don't get up in the night to pee (I wish, that would REALLY solve the problem! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/orngtongue.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Stick Out Tongue">)<br><br>
I've also thought about making some wool soakers for them, since I'm already making them for my younger two children, but then I'll need to find either a pf or fitted that will fit children that large, and that's not so easy, either. That's why I like the idea of the pocket dipes, b/c while the dipe itself needs to fit your child, the "stuffing" doesn't need to be size-specific.<br><br>
I'm rambling aloud at this point, LOL, but rest assured that others are spending their time pondering the ultimate answer to this question, too! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile"><br><br>
Kind regards,<br>
Guin