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Did you see this dr. phil? The woman had had an affair and got pregnant. She decided to keep the baby and raise it with her husband (he knew) and wanted the biofather to have no contact because she didn't want her baby to have a stepmom. Beside the fact that she really has no choice in this matter (it is his kid, too) she kept saying that she would rather have the baby not know its father than have a stepmom. She had friends that were stepmoms and it was just bad, she thought. I was irked. We don't necessarily prefer a lot of things, but we deal with them and make the best of it. I did want to be dss's stepmom, though. It was a packaged deal and I took it.