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<p>Hey all, I saw this post on Offbeat Mama today but didn't have any specific resources to share. She's only gotten a few replies so far. Anyone else care to chime in?</p>
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<p><span style="font-size:11px;"><span style="font-family:Georgia, serif;line-height:24px;background-color:rgb(210,233,243);">"My lovely wife and I just found out that we're expecting! After about a year of trying with a known donor, lots of ups and downs with a low sperm count, and finally getting to a place where we were okay with waiting for a baby, we came as close to a surprise lesbian pregnancy as we think is possible. It's still super early, so we're cautious, but bolstered by the knowledge that we CAN get pregnant!</span></span></p>
<p style="margin-top:.8em;color:rgb(85,85,85);font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:16px;line-height:24px;background-color:transparent;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;"><span style="font-size:11px;background-color:transparent;">As the non-bio mom, I am super excited, and know that I have a huge and important part in this — but I don't know where to start looking for resources! I've been scouring the web for blogs, articles, and other resources for non-bio moms. Many of the blogs I've found are out of date and/or no longer being updated. The articles I'm finding don't quite fit our situation. I can't find any sort of pregnancy journal for the non-bio parent that isn't for a dad.</span></p>
<p style="margin-top:.8em;color:rgb(85,85,85);font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:16px;line-height:24px;background-color:transparent;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;"><span style="font-size:11px;">I want to have pregnancy-related projects and responsibilities that are my own to manage and work on and throw love into — but I can't find any of those features or articles that you always come across and think, "What a good idea! I can't wait to do that when it's our turn."</span></p>
<p style="margin-top:.8em;color:rgb(85,85,85);font-family:Georgia, serif;font-size:16px;line-height:24px;background-color:transparent;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;"><span style="font-size:11px;"><strong style="background-color:transparent;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;">So I guess what I'm asking for, of other non-bio moms out there or anyone else who has ideas… where do I start? </strong>I'm looking for blogs that are regularly updated, books I can read (<a href="" style="color:rgb(53,156,200);background-color:transparent;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;" target="_blank">Confessions of the Other Mother</a> and<a href="" style="color:rgb(53,156,200);background-color:transparent;border-top-width:0px;border-right-width:0px;border-bottom-width:0px;border-left-width:0px;margin-top:0px;margin-right:0px;margin-bottom:0px;margin-left:0px;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;" target="_blank">She Looks Just Like You</a> are on hold at my library), articles, journals, etc. — Katie"</span></p>
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