DD has always had a hard time doing her own thing. Sometimes she will for a few minutes, but it's rare. I've tried everything I can think of. I'll put things away for a time and take them out so they are 'new' to her, but she's not very interested. I've tried getting really new things, but again, she's not interested. She likes to help me around the house, but when it comes to me needing some time to sew or online, it's a no go. She will hang on my chair and whine or want to sit in my lap or 'need help' for everything. She is capable of so much, I know she is capable of half the things she asks for help with, because when I get up to help her or do it, she will rush to do it. I play with her during the day, not too much though, since I need to be doing my cleaning, cooking, ect. We go places in the morning, the park, library, farm, playdates, ect. It's after nap that is killing me. For 3-4 hours it's a struggle for me to find things for her to do while I get somethings done. She simply doesn't have any desire to play play-doh/dolls/blocks/color/ect alone, or even right next to me. She wants me playing with her all. the. time. HELP!