Glad you guys made a decision! I have gone back and forth on this one too. I will of course be happy with whatever, but it would be way easier in so many way if it is a boy. I just want to know ahead of time so I dont pop out a girl and then start stressing that we dont have girl clothes and (this is real long term) someday they wont be able to share a room. That is how I am. a total worrywort even if it is a LONG way off. So, I decided to just find out. I am jealous of people who dont find out though, because I wish I could do it! I am happy for you!!
NOT going to find out!
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So I'm kind of excited and I just wanted to share. My DH and I were going back and forth about finding out what this little one is at the 18-20 week ultrasound. We found out with DD and were thrilled, I really wanted to know. But for this one neither of us have felt like we really needed/wanted to know! I'm really excited.
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My mom was super awesome, she was like, well, we'll just have your shower afterward! And I was excited bc I didn't even think they would do one for #2! So that's perfect! I think the in-laws won't like it bc they won't understand but oh well!
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I'm just so excited about not knowing until we see the goods in person! Heehee.
Keeping fingers crossed that the tech won't tell us!!
*not that finding out is wrong or anything, I just want to be surprised with this one.
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My mom was super awesome, she was like, well, we'll just have your shower afterward! And I was excited bc I didn't even think they would do one for #2! So that's perfect! I think the in-laws won't like it bc they won't understand but oh well!
I'm just so excited about not knowing until we see the goods in person! Heehee.
Keeping fingers crossed that the tech won't tell us!!
*not that finding out is wrong or anything, I just want to be surprised with this one.
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We're not finding out either. We did with the first two, but not with our last. Ironically, I knew, KNEW I was carrying another little girl. And she was.
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Funny how things go...
Funny how things go...
I'm pretty positive we're not figuring out. With our midwives, ultrasound is optional, anyway... but I am pretty sure we're going to want a peek in there before this thing is over with
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. But I don't think we'll find out the gender. The ONLY problem I have with this is that I keep checking Craigslist for cheap baby clothes and of course everything is grouped together for either boys or girls. Other than that it's just exciting... I think getting to find out if we have a daughter or son will make the birth THAT much more exciting!
we didn't found out with our second either... it was SOOO fun! i loved the surprise!! we're finding out with this one, mostly because i have to have a us at 19 weeks to check on a bleed, but also because the surprise of the last one was untoppable, imo.
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We didn't find out with my first two and are not going to find out with this one.
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We'll wait until August.
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My mother-in-law says, "It is a surprise whenever you find out. One surprise just makes you wait longer than the other one." I think that is her way of trying to convince us to find out!
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We didn't find out the first time and we won't this time either.
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