My oldest nursling will be 4 in about 2 weeks. Lately, I've had to grit my teeth whenever she wants to nurse because I can't really stand it anymore
. I can nurse her younger sister (just turned 2) with no problems at all. I would like my older nursling to wean when she's ready, with little or no interference, but not sure how much longer I can take it!! She's nursing only a couple times a day, morning & night, but I just get so irritated with her I don't know what to do!!
I feel for you. It was the same for me also. It reminded me of when my cat was weaning her kittens. She'd just get up and walk away. A the time I thought it was mean, but when I started to get the "this is enough!" feeling with my DS, I finally sympathized with her.
There was just something about the 'fit' of nursing that didn't feel right anymore.
No suggestions, just wanted you to know you're not alone