It's a really tough decision
How old is your child? And how well do you like your dentist? If he/she is pretty typical, then they may require the use of a papoose board if you go the sedation route. That would be a big decision factor if I was facing this choice. Would they let you hold her tightly, maybe even wrapped in a blanket, during the procedure?
Is there any possible way that you could locate someone willing to to ART (atraumatic restorative treatment)? Personally, that would be the route that follow. And in fact, that's what we chose for our son. Unfortunately, we had to travel across two states to get it.

Is there any possible way that you could locate someone willing to to ART (atraumatic restorative treatment)? Personally, that would be the route that follow. And in fact, that's what we chose for our son. Unfortunately, we had to travel across two states to get it.