Hi EFMom - I'm wondering about a few things...doctors for kids (DO's, ND's or maybe a hip GP or Ped.), maybe a support group for moms/babies (we're due next month with #2) - if it were one I enjoyed, I'd gladly travel for it (we're in Delmar), and maybe some cool moms who a.p. Any ideas? We've been here just over two years, and I have made some friends through dd's school etc., but I really haven't met too many moms that I have much in common with (actually I have, but they also tend to be quite catholic - literally - which is tough for me). So... informed is completely relative, I guess! Sorry if that may have put you off. If you have any ideas, plse let me know! Thanks!! Andy