I can't help it, I don't want to be vane and I wish I could accept my body but it is so disturbing to me when I feel or see my belly. I have really bad stretch marks- I look like I was in a terrible fire and the skin hangsin a sack. Iam a dancer and while I have never been dancerskinny I was always muscular and tight. Ds is almost 7 mos old.I lost all the weight by 6 weeks so it isn't that. I know it won't get better be/c this is baby #2 and it hadn't improved with #1 by the time I got pg when he was 16 months. I find myself feeling panicky about the way it feels and getting jealous almost hateful if I see a mom with a smooth belly! .I am not used to my stomach feeling out of control. Dh thinks I am just as sexy as before but I always say he is lying or blinded. Ugh. I know there are worse things in life!!