[txgal]

I have a friend that is expecting in the next couple of weeks. She doesn't know what she is having but I have given her tons of info on circ. I was really wanting to know what her thoughts were so far, so today we are talking and I ask her what her husband thinks of the issue. She says that they had talked about it and that he was surprised about how traumatic a circ is and what all it entails. I am thinking okay thats good they realize it's not just a little snip. I went on to talk about the cleanliness issue being totally bogus and she agreed, then I talked about how it really should be the babies choice, it's not a birth defect, again agreement from her. So I am thinking great, another baby saved. So I end by saying, it is so great that you and Dh are on the same page about this issue, and she says " Oh, well we haven't completely made up our minds yet"...<br><br>
WHAT!!! How can you admit that you understand all these things and still be on the fence about the issue? It is a no brainer folks!!!!<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad"><br>
There is still hope, but it is so frustrating.

 

[LavenderMae]

That happened to me recently with someone as well. I don't get it either. I hope they were in the end they decide not to circ!!