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<p>SO my DH is fabulous. Sure, he has flaws but he is a wonderful hubby, thoughtful, patient, loving, perfect!!!!!!!! I am 6 months pregnant with twins and lately have been a complete biatch to sweet dh. Last night, I was sleeping after a rough day yesterday...I had to go to labor and delivery as I was spotting and they were monitoring my contractions. Everything was fine and I got to go home after a few hours. I didnt sleep well the night before either. So i fell asleep fast. Dh woke me up after 2 mins of me being asleep asking if I needed a breath right strip on my nose. i have bad bad swollen sinuses this pregnancy and dh said I was gasping for air in my sleep.</p>
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<p>I went off on him. Cussed him out, huffed out to the spare bedroom, then when he didnt come after me I huffed back in, basically was sooooo out of my character. I feel so bad. I have been like this the last 2 days. Dh is very patient with me and just comforts me and tells me not to worry about it, but I just feel so bad.</p>
 

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<p>My husband said as long as I acknowledged that I was being crazy and apologized he could cope with it.  Hopefully your husband is similar?</p>
 

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<p>A genuine apology goes a long way. </p>
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<p>When I realize that I'm being this way, I will seek dh out (if he's hiding from my irrational wrath <img alt="lol.gif" class="bbcode_smiley" src="http://files.mothering.com//images/smilies/lol.gif">) and tell him that I was wrong, I treated him horribly, and I am very sorry.  I have to do this several times each pregnancy.  It's embarassing, who likes apologizing?  But it's worth it, if the relationship is something you want to keep healthy. </p>
 

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<p>Yes I have apologized a lot. Dh just laughs and tells me its all with the territory(being pregnant and such) and dh says one day we will look back on this and laugh. ooooook.LOL I just wish I could stop it when I feel like that. Most of the time I can, we have a rule to always speak kind to each other(kind of like the Duggar rules if you follow that show) but once in a while..........the thing is dh never ever goes off on me about anything, he's so laid back and chilled thats what makes it even worse when I do have those moments. So embarrassing.<img alt="" src="http://files.mothering.com/wild.gif" style="width:25px;height:24px;" title=""></p>
 

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<p>I'm glad it was so easily resolved. <img alt="smile.gif" class="bbcode_smiley" src="http://files.mothering.com//images/smilies/smile.gif"><br><br>
Yes, it's embarassing.  Oh well, like he said, for some of us it just comes with the territory.  If you can't stop yourself in the moment, an apology is the next best thing, and that's what you did. <img alt="hug.gif" class="bbcode_smiley" src="http://files.mothering.com//images/smilies/hug.gif"></p>
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>cappuccinosmom</strong> <a href="/community/forum/thread/1278712/oh-me-oh-my-i-am-being-a-not-nice-person-right-now#post_16038257"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style="border:0px solid;"></a><br><br><p>A genuine apology goes a long way. </p>
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<p>When I realize that I'm being this way, I will seek dh out (if he's hiding from my irrational wrath <img alt="lol.gif" class="bbcode_smiley" src="http://files.mothering.com//images/smilies/lol.gif">) and tell him that I was wrong, I treated him horribly, and I am very sorry.  I have to do this several times each pregnancy.  It's embarassing, who likes apologizing?  But it's worth it, if the relationship is something you want to keep healthy. </p>
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<p>So true. I apologize as many times as I feel necessary and do something nice for DP to remind how much I care for him even though I was unconscious and unkind. <br>
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