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Okay, so when did your baby start talking?

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I'm just reading the thread about not talking at 18 months, and didn't want to derail it, so here's my question.

DD is 15 1/2 months and doesn't talk. Sign, yes, but no talking. She maybe says dada, but that is it. I'm not really too worried at this point, but I would like to do a quick survey here.

When did your baby say his/her first word?
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Ds1-- 9m (nose)
Ds2-- 11m (star)

My boys are very big talkers, though. Can't shut them up (not that I'd want to
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Dd started using "up" consistently and correctly at 8-9 months.

And you are totally right not to worry. From a child development stance (as in what I do for a living), the thing to look for is some sort of functional communication (signing, talking, pointing, etc.) before age 2. I just happen to have a chatter-box. My brother did not have much spoken language until 2 1/2, but signed well from age 18m on. Now, at 24, he can't shut up
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I don't remember
but he is 20 months now and says a lot all day. I have known kids that seemed to be silent until they were 4 and then all of the sudden started talking! My cousin did this..I left for one year when he was 3 and when I came back he was speaking in sentences!!


Also, drs look for problems....something to remember when they give you advice.
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This has been around before, I recommend a search, you'll find lotsa threads on this issue. My second son was not a talker, prob didn't use real sentences til 24 mos, he is fine, reads like a maniac (he's five) but I don't think he will ever be eloquent in the talking dept, it's his personality. My oldest son talked at 18 mos, he is/was a chatterbox. My daughter is extremely verbal, has been since vy young, I didn't keep track of age...
It was difficult to keep track of when words pop up, but my baby memory book says 7 months for the first word
I have a major talker at 16 months he says about 75 words. He had a lot of signs but he has replaced most of them with the words now (although he still signs milk, eat, and done while he says them). I wouldn't be worried if he wasn't talking yet as I think most kids start their language explosion in the 18-24 month range.
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I don't really remember what their first words were and when exactly they were said. But I do remember that my oldest didn't talk before 22 months except for: Dada and dissie (nursie). He didn't even say, "Mama". We refused an eval, because he had great receptive language skills and we felt he would not cooperate with someone else (very shy, cautious and non-performing). At 22 months, I think he said, "water" and "thank you", but I can't remember which one first. After that, it was like the flood-gates were open. Within three months, he sounded just like any other boy his age. Now at nearly 5, he never stops talking and he is very well-spoken. He says things like, "Do you know what I realized?".

My youngest son said a few words before 12 months. I just looked at our website and it looks like he said, "hi", "bye", "Mama", "Dada", "up" and "buh-buh (older brother)". Then, the next word was "tea", because I drink a lot of tea. His speech development seemed more gradual, whereas my oldest did a bunch all at once. They have very different learning styles and personalities too. I think it's hard to compare speech development between different kids.
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DS said his first word at 15 months (it was "up") and then had over 100 words and was saying two word sentences at 18 months. So for him it all happened at once. He started signing at 9 months though we didn't do an extensive signing vocabularly -- he had about 5 signed words.
I have 3 kids. 1st dd, 9 or 10 months, "uhoh" when dropping something,
2nd dd learned mama very early--9 months? Don't remember when ds said his first word, but I'm sure he had a few by 12 months.
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14 mos - the little bugger's first word was "No!"
My dd is 21 mos and is talking and signing a lot now, new ones every day and stringing words together, but I was concerned at 15 mos. She only had a couple of words then. She also said a couple of words before she turned 1, but then she stopped saying them for a while. That was strange. She did grow her first tooth the week of her first birthday, and I almost wonder if that made talking take a bit longer. (Her 6yo sister that won't stop chatting probably doesn't help much either.)

I can see that she understands what we say, can follow complicated directions, enjoys books and can pick out elements of the picture. She can match fairly complicated shapes, is good at sorting, likes to put things away....

I think kids work on the skills that interest them. It's worth being aware of the warning signs for speech delays, but not to stress it too much. Your baby will want to talk very soon.
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Originally Posted by darien
Ds1-- 9m (nose)
Ds2-- 11m (star)

My boys are very big talkers, though. Can't shut them up (not that I'd want to
)!
There are days I wish my son had an OFF button!!!
He just talks and talks and talks and talks........99% of the time I love it...but there are those days.....we all have them.
Anyhow....my son started saying momma to me at 5 months old. By 12 months old he could say about 20 words, and sign about 5.
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My son's first word was the sign 'more' at about 13 mos. Dd's was 'hi' at 11 mos.

I do agree that you have nothing to worry about at this point, as a couple of signs at 15 mos is well within the range of normal. What you're looking for is the ability to understand some words at this age, gesture and direct your attention and follow your gestures/attention.

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Originally Posted by leafwood
Dd started using "up" consistently and correctly at 8-9 months.

And you are totally right not to worry. From a child development stance (as in what I do for a living), the thing to look for is some sort of functional communication (signing, talking, pointing, etc.) before age 2. l
I have to disagree with part of this.
Age 2 is too late (I do child language development for a living). If a child is 18 months and ONLY points (not signs), I'd be worried. As I would if a hearing child got to 2 and had no SPOKEN words. What we're looking for in terms of production is at least 10 words by 18 months and 50 by 24 months (and that's on the low end). If your child has great comprehension and is slow to speak, I can see putting off an evaluation.

But a child who's between 18 mos and 2 and not talking, warrants an eval, IMO. yes, many of the kids will be just fine. But alas, some won't. And we can't tell which ones will be which at this point in time.

So, for now, I wouldn't worry, keep talking and signing. If you're still worried at 18-20 months, you can pursue it further.

Lynn
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My children both said a word or two around 10 months, I think. Built up a few more after and then that's it for a while.
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Ds1 didn't say anything until at least 2.5yo (well, he did say stuff like "uh oh" and some animal sounds), and really wasn't talking until a few months after he turned 3.
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Albert Einstein didn't start talking until he was almost 4.


I would say that your child is doing great using signing with you as communication. I wouldn't worry about it, especially at only 15 1/2 months.


To answer your question, my dc is one of the chatter-boxes. By 15 months dc used around 70 words and a few short sentences consistantly and regularly. That number had doubled only 3 months later. At 26 months now, you still can't shut dc up!
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At 20 months we have very little that is consistant. Ds started with mama which actually meant milk around 14 months? He doesn't use it anymore though. He says utoh, used to say dog but now just pants like a dog instead. (thanks granny!) We also moved to Germany at 16 months so that just generally confused him. He doesn't really listen well either because he is generally involved in something else but I have seen him understand and take direction in both languages. He makes a lot of verbal noise though.
My kids did not start talking really well till they were 2 years, but then by three they all had an amazing vocab.. Two of my kids could have gotten free speech, but by the time they called us, my little ones were talking a lot. I am due to have #5 in May. I promised myself that this time around I will not care if my baby is not talking like the other babies I see.

On a side bar, My kids are also late readers. They wanted to hold back my son in 1st grade because he was not reading. My husband and I said NO! He is now reading on a third grade level or more and has all A's in second grade. I know my kids and I am not afraid to fight the "system" to get what I think my kids need.

Don't panic yet, just enjoy that beautiful baby!
My kids did not start talking really well till they were 2 years, but then by three they all had an amazing vocab.. Two of my kids could have gotten free speech, but by the time they called us, my little ones were talking a lot. I am due to have #5 in May. I promised myself that this time around I will not care if my baby is not talking like the other babies I see.

On a side bar, My kids are also late readers. They wanted to hold back my son in 1st grade because he was not reading. My husband and I said NO! He is now reading on a third grade level or more and has all A's in second grade. I know my kids and I am not afraid to fight the "system" to get what I think my kids need.

Don't panic yet, just enjoy that beautiful baby!
DS is almost 19 months and *can* say a few words upon prompting (mama, nana, dad, hot, no) but he rarely says them on his own. He knows about 10 signs, though, and he has his own ways of communicating. Like if he wants to nurse he stares right at me and nods his head (like "yes!").

He had his well-child 18 month checkup yesterday and the doctor said she wouldn't worry about it at all, and the 2 yo checkup is when she really evaluates language. She said that girls are much more likely to talk earlier, which is probably just her own experience...
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