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I recently moved (June) to a wonderful new home, but prior to that we were renting from the landlords from hell. I documented much of this in my personal blog - There is just too much to post here, but it was a nightmare.
The unfortunate thing is that the first year and a half of DS's life took place there and we were MISERABLE.
My problem is that I just can't overcome the anger/anxiety of this. Every time I think of random things that happened there I still get that sinking feeling in my gut. I can't even look at DS's baby pictures from in the apartment w/out getting sick to my stomach.
They ruined Christmas for us last year (okay so it was an ok Christmas, but they delivered a really nasty judgemental letter to us last year on Christmas that just abou broke me) and now all that has been occupying my mind since the move is how I want to deliver an equally nasty letter in return to ruin their Christmas this year.
I left the situation frustrated, hurt and angry. I actually moved in with my in-laws (a 2 hour drive from home) for the last 2 months of our lease (leaving DH behind to stay in the apartment) because the situation became so intolerable.
Anyhow - here I am - two months after the move- settled into my new home and I just can't get over this. I don't even like posting in my blog because there are so many entries in there that remind me of what happened.
Suggestions?
The unfortunate thing is that the first year and a half of DS's life took place there and we were MISERABLE.
My problem is that I just can't overcome the anger/anxiety of this. Every time I think of random things that happened there I still get that sinking feeling in my gut. I can't even look at DS's baby pictures from in the apartment w/out getting sick to my stomach.
They ruined Christmas for us last year (okay so it was an ok Christmas, but they delivered a really nasty judgemental letter to us last year on Christmas that just abou broke me) and now all that has been occupying my mind since the move is how I want to deliver an equally nasty letter in return to ruin their Christmas this year.
I left the situation frustrated, hurt and angry. I actually moved in with my in-laws (a 2 hour drive from home) for the last 2 months of our lease (leaving DH behind to stay in the apartment) because the situation became so intolerable.
Anyhow - here I am - two months after the move- settled into my new home and I just can't get over this. I don't even like posting in my blog because there are so many entries in there that remind me of what happened.
Suggestions?