Next Sunday, I will be traveling to Norway alone with DS1, who is 20 months old. I am 7 months pregnant, and have just learned that the flight is almost completely full.
We have booked DS into his own seat. Usually, he travels in a CARES harness, and that works well for us. He is usually not able to get much sleep on flights, though. And yes, we have done overnight flights before. He just won't sleep while sitting in a regular plane seat.
I know this sounds crazy, but I am considering bringing DS2 (unborn)'s bucket seat for the flight. Yesterday, we bought a Chicco Keyfit 30 for the new baby, and to our amazement, 20 month old big bro almost fits. DS is fairly small for his age. He is 35 inches tall, and weighs 25 pounds. Of course, we would never drive with him in a bucket, but for flight purposes we wonder if it would work. His shoulders are about half an inch above the top shoulder slots (short torso), the top of his head goes about an inch above the shell, and his feet look to be about two inches longer than the seat....but when he bends them he's fine. The straps fit just fine, and he looks comfortable in the seat.
The downside--it may not be a perfect fit for him, and he'd have to be reclining for the whole flight. If he sleeps, that's great...if not it could be a major disadvantage. He'd have to be rearward facing, so he wouldn't get to see the inflight entertainment system, and unless we have an empty seat beside us (something I doubt since the flight is almost full) there would be no alternative to the bucket. (It can't go in the overhead bins, right?) I don't have much of a lap to sit in right now either. If the car seat would fit in an overhead bin or if we had an extra seat, I could use the CARES if necessary, and I wouldn't be so worried about taking up all the space with a car seat.
The upside--he might actually sleep, and that would be a wonderful relief to a tired, pregnant mama.
What would you do? CARES or bucket?