How do you handle this? I have a 5mo who is EBF and a 2yo who is night weaned but nurses 2-3 times daily; her longest nursing time in the morning. Stbx wants to file the papers as soon as we get to AZ. Devin will only be 7 months old. How does this work? And while we're talking abou tvisitation - is it OK that I want to cry every time I think about not being with my babies?