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last night i cried and cried over things in the past. All the stuff that i suppress comes out during my hormonal times and just amplifies. DH has been really irritating <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad"> , I painted the bathroom because i knew he wouldn't do it or just whine and whine and do a crappy job. My parent got us this really cool two seater stroller for us, but the material needs to be taken off and cleaned. He whined like a two year old and i just told him i would do it. I just want him to do things with out me nagging him and if he dose something I mean just a little thing like pick up two toys out of ten and i don't give him a standing ovation, then that makes him mad and he won't do anything again. I am getting to that point of tired where i don't feel like i can respond with control. I just want to break something over his head<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/duck.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Duck">: . I want to be a wife not a mommy to my husband and a cheerleader. And my MIL is about to be homeless so we need to take her in for a while. And there is a medical condition behind everything, he dose not do dishes or clean and plays video games for hours on end is because he has focusing problems. He runs to mommy when it comes to money and i hate it. she is really helpful and sweet it just he is spoiled. Yesterday the cable guy came to the house asking if we wanted to pay the two and a half month bill in full or disconnect. we have a 14 dollar cable bill and he can pay online as much as he is one the computer you would think that paying bills wouldn't be that difficult. I am so frustrated ,i don't think i am going to have anymore children, i can't do it all.<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/gloomy.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Gloomy">:
 

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<div style="font-style:italic;">The worst mine does is ignore everything going on around him. He turns on a video game or something and just tunes it all out.</div>
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That's what my dad does around his parents - still drives mom nuts!<br><br><div style="margin:20px;margin-top:5px;">
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<div style="font-style:italic;">Does he realize he's doing this when his parents are around?</div>
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No, he doesn't. I asked him, and he said he didn't know what I was talking about. Then we talked about some of the picking MIL was doing on me, and he totally agreed with me - so I don't know why he can't speak up for me now and then. I think they are kind of repressed as a family or something - they do a lot of the passive-agressive snarkiness, whereas I come from a family that just blows up and then kisses and makes up. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/lol.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="lol"><br><br><div style="margin:20px;margin-top:5px;">
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<div style="font-style:italic;">I wonder if we are going through a new phase of hormones, cause I haven't been this hormonal in a very long time. Maybe it coincides with a growth spurt?</div>
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Maybe? It has helped me a lot this time around to be in the due date club and see that other women are feeling the same as I do at the same stage. I think previously I thought I was completely normal everyone was being really mean - now I see they are just being normal (for them) and I'm just more tender.
 

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Nonononono, we are NOT being oversensitive ladies. I am in perfectly comfortable denial about being crazy right now. We are all fine...<br><br><br><br>
...says the woman who cries over nothing the entire day and feels conspiracy behind everything right now.<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/redface.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Embarrassment"> They're out to get us, girls, watch out <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/duck.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Duck">: <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/lol.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="lol">
 

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MIL and FIL not being accepting of our decision to HB is REALLY pissing me off right now. As soon as DH walked out of the room, MIL was onto me about it. I finally said, "STOP. We made this decision together. End of discusssion." So she later complained to FIL, who was onto DH this morning at work.<br><br>
Are they just brain dead? Do they think we'll stay at home if there are complications......??? <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/dizzy.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Dizzy">:<br><br>
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EVERYTHING. Seriously. DH hurts my feelings on like a daily basis. Fortunately, I have THE BEST husband ever, and when I tell him he makes a great effort to apolagize and be very gentle with me <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/love.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="love">. But I find myself feeling (though trrrrryyyying not to ACT) more impatient with DS lately. Also our cat likes to run out the door when we open it and hide in the icky, dark, musty, rodenty, spidery part of the basement. And run under my feet when I'm walking through the house doing stuff. Only my balence is a bit off with this belly and he's a big cat so today he knocked me right off my feet onto the floor. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/bigeyes.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="bigeyes">
 

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<div style="font-style:italic;">We are house hunting right now and my mother doesn't seem to realize that we don't make as much money as they do. She keeps sending me listings so far out of my price range that our mortgage would be more than 2 of dh's paychecks. I told her the range we were looking in, and she says "but those houses are so much nicer than what you are looking at." Ok. Do you want to buy one for me? <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/banghead.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="banghead"></div>
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Mine does this too, sends us houses on her street. Which we couldn't afford even with me working, which I couldn't if we lived where she lived (and that's the plan, for me to stay home after this baby). So nice thought, but not very realistic of her!
 

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I know what you mean on the emotional!! Today I was straightening some rugs because I work at a store and when I went to the next aisle to straighten some more a customer went to the rugs and started pulling them off the shelves, throwing them on the floor, and testing them out. Then she threw them back on the shelf and I was impressed that she even picked them up, but I still had to stop myself from crying. I had to go back over all the work I had just done. I have no idea why I wanted to cry, but I did. It annoys me that sometimes customers think that all I have to do is wait on them and pick up after their messes. I had one guy throw something on the floor then tell me that I get paid to clean up after him. Then he walked away<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/irked.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="irked">:
 

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Got a new one!<br><br>
Our dog, several months ago, chewed up a little stuffed owl DH had bought me at the bookstore. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/mecry.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="crying"> Tonight we were at the bookstore again and I said, "Hey, where's my owl?" DH reminded me. He tossed me one of the owls and said, "Here, hold this one." I was nearly in TEARS because I just wanted my owl!!! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/bawling.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="bawl"> DD knew I was sad and she was consoling me and said, "Would you like me to ask dad to buy you a new one? I will ask him. Hold on." <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/love.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="love"><br><br>
He bought me a new one. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/loveeyes.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Loveeyes">:
 

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<div style="font-style:italic;">I had one guy throw something on the floor then tell me that I get paid to clean up after him. Then he walked away<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/irked.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="irked">:</div>
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I may have had the urge to tell him, "Actually, no I don't. Grow the **** up." And then I'd pick it up and shove it at him. Maybe shove it in his mouth or his shirt pocket. Or just push it into his face like ppl do at weddings w/ the cake.<br><br>
Oh, this is a fun visual. I'm enjoying myself entirely too much. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/lol.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="lol">
 

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<div style="font-style:italic;">I had one guy throw something on the floor then tell me that I get paid to clean up after him. Then he walked away<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/irked.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="irked">:</div>
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What an ass! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/irked.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="irked">:
 

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Don't worry about it sweety, you're preggers and you are entitled to getting oversensitive due tothe hormones. I was at the supermarket the other day and dropped a box of blueberries and almost lost it crying. :p
 

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That is a calling for a good swift kick in the nether regions and when he falls down, tell him to pick himself back up. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/loveeyes.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Loveeyes">:
 

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I noticed the other day that I get real paranoid about strangers talking to ds1 at the park. We speak german and I think sometimes other moms think that I don't understand english. A lot of times they ask him where he's from and which school he's going to, stuff like that. Lately I suspect conspiracy behind everything and it bothers me for some stupid reason when they try to make conversation with him past the"how old are you, how old's your brother"...kinda thing.
 
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