This isn't for a check up, but just a regular visit.
How long will you wait until you guys, grandparents, or whomever is going with the mom to visit the NICU that your baby/ies were in or don't go until the reunion with all the years babies that your baby/ies was a part of or would never go or don't know?
I have gone back to the NICU and to the reunion. I found the reunion to be disappointing, since I didn't really recognize any of the doctors or nurses there (just one) and only a couple of other parents. So we pretty much just stayed in a family group. I will probably not go next year. I went back to the NICU a year after she was released (couldn't go on her birthday because I was sick) and it was not as bad as I thought. I needed to do it, for closure, I think. They took a picture of us and we gave them some candy and we talked to one of the nurses that took the most care of her. It was nice to see her.