My 15 yr old dd just brought me a pile of clothes. "Time to pass these along. Some of these things are too small, and some just don't feel like me". <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/love.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="love"> She gets that its ok to sort through things and decide they shouldn't be taking up space in your life if they do not work. She gets that others may need/want them.