I have lived in SE CT all my life. The peds I currently go to for my son are the same group I went to as a child. The Gales Ferry Pediatric Group has several peds in the practice, and it is a pretty diverse group. They have been relatively understanding in regards to not immunizing and extended bfing. They did, as a practice, recommend vaccinations and did discourage us from co-sleeping, but were not disrespectful about it or condescending. We personally use Dr. Lovin, although when ds gets older will probably switch to a male ped. Dr. Forstein is also very good.
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