To some this post may sound very selfish...I even feel guilty myself but here goes. I bf my 20 month old dd. I am pregnant with #2, I am about 11 weeks along. I am having the hardest time with her nursing. It hurts soooo bad. And it scares me because when she nurses, I get bad cramps in my uterus. I tried to withhold the breast but she screams and cries until I give in (yes I know I shuold not let her cry...I feel out of control in the situation). Also, I do not know anyone who bf this long and all my family and friends are giving me a hard time. I used to deal with it pretty well, but now with my pain, the cramps, their fussing.... I am at my wits end. What should I do?