I hate just popping in to ask for help, but I really don't know what to do. DS and I sleep in the guest room, while DH sleeps in our bed alone. We've basically had this arrangement for the 2 years since DS was born. I thought it was fine, even though people that know about it think we're nuts, but DH and I are starting to drift apart. He told me the other night that he feels like the fact that we sleep apart is a factor, that we don't have any time together in the evenings to talk. (we have plenty of opportunities for everything else) Anyway, DH and DS can't sleep together - both too restless. DS still wakes up at least twice a night, and I don't get any sleep playing musical beds all night. So what do I do? I have to respect DH's feelings about this and make an effort, but I don't know what to do. Should I try putting a mattress on the floor in our room for DS? Will that make it harder to eventually transition him to his own room (when he's ready)?