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I know this is a lot to look through but I figured I'd post all these just in case someone else might find something they need in here too.

Is Homebirth Really a Safe Option?
Statistics on Safety of Homebirth
Home Birth Research Summaries - page 2
Birth research & statistics
Rape of the Twentieth Century
Why Homebirth? (Pam's site with lots of good links)
Homebirth & Parenting Ring
Care in normal birth/Chapter 2 Part 1 General aspects (scroll to 'Place of Birth')
Home Birth Reference Site
Homebirth - Safety and Benefits
Homebirth - Information & Products
Childbirth - hospital risks, etc
Infant mortality rate
Countries by Health: Infant mortality rate
Homebirth - BirthScene
Homebirth Safety/Advocacy
Why Homebirth? (Midwifery Today)
Home Birth Research Index
The Medical Literature on the Safety of Home Birth
Is Homebirth Safe? at StorkNet's Homebirth Cubby!
Birth Center & Home Birth ~ Birth Naturally, LLC
Article: No Place Like Home
Homebirth (Sheila Kitzinger)
Homebirth: What Are the Issues?
HOME BIRTH - As safe as it gets
Is Homebirth for You?
FAQs About Midwives and Midwifery Care
Outcomes of intended home births...
Meta-analysis of the safety of home birth
Home birth safe for low-risk pregnancies - Yahoo! News
Spontaneous Creation: 101 Reasons Not To Have Your Baby In The Hospital
Childbirth Solutions President's Message re: Homebirth
Hospital Risks--The Midwife and Home Birth

 

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I'm so sorry to hear that! I think all you can do is let her know that you're there for her, however she should need you. Even if it's just to listen to her cry. But sadly there's not really anything you can do to change things between them. I hope they work through whatever the issues are.