[cathicog]

Is there anyway you might be able to hb with your twins? It would probably be much safer! There are many midwives who would hb twins, and are good at it...

 

[cathicog]

Oh, OK. That sounds like a good plan...I know UC with twins for some people would be too much...but it sounds like you have a great plan in place- keep us posted, OK, and we can celebrate with you!

 

[cathicog]

I T A. There should be a point at which the bed is for Mom and Dad. Period. I co-slept with our small babies, but by 3-6 months, they were in thier own bed. I would not let a baby come between the husband/wife relationship like that. This is one of the places where i disagree with the AP philosophy. Person/God relationship first, Husband/wife relation ship comes second, then relationships with kids. That order.