Hello there. Can't remember if I ever actually posted to the other thread, though I was a reader of it. I'm M and from Indiana. I'm also in the position of not quite knowing how many partners I would say I have. I'm in the process of getting divorced, but he still lives here part-time as we go through the transition. I newly have a boyfriend, but that is brand new, we've been together officially less than a month. *basking in the glow of NRE*. I also have a play partner for over a year now who at times I have called a boyfriend, but generally (and currently) do not. Plus I have just been enjoying getting out there and dating lately, getting to know the poly community more and such, and have several other people who would fall into the play partner or casual dating categories probably.