My 3 1/2 year old ds pees in the potty every time, but he thinks he's supposed to poop in his underwear, then go put it in the potty! I've explained it to him, I've caught him a couple of times when I knew he was going and put him on the toilet. I even went out and bought him a little potty that he could sit on and dump it inthe toilet by himself, but he just doesn't seem to care! I caught him one time standing right next to the toilet going!! I don't know what to do. I don't know if he still wants to be a baby, if he needs some more attention, or what? Anybody got any suggestions? I even told him we'd buy Rescue Hero underwear when he started pooping in the toilet. Nothing! When I ask him why, he'll say, "I needed to poop in the toilet." <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/headscratch.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="headscratch"> We've discussed big boys and babies and all that. It's really very frustrating! Anyway, thanks for any ideas you can give me.