We are planning on ttc in December for #4. #3 was a 2 hour start to finish dream home water birth. We were in the heart of town then, now we are rural. The midwife barely made it then; I wouldn't be a bit surprised if #4-to-be becomes a UC. I don't have a problem with that, and plan to prepare myself for that possibility. DH is reluctant at this point to even have another home birth since we are so far from hospital uke (not my favorite places, especially for birth) and help should things take a turn and we need help. Nevertheless, homebirth it is, and he knows there is no other thought to entertain. I'll look around here on the board, but I am wondering what you would suggest for reading. Also any advice on preparing DH in a roundabout way for UC; he would not be too keen on catching baby as a planned course of action.