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I am stealing this from the October DDC since I think it's a nice way to check in all on the same thread!

A few topics/questions:

How far along are you?

How much weight have you gained so far? If this isn't your first, is this more or less than previous pregnancies?

Have you gotten a linea negra? If this isn't your first, did you get one in previous pregnancies?

What symptoms are bothering you the most right now?

What symptoms do you enjoy the most?

What are some of you fears as the time approaches?

What are you most excited about as the time approaches?
 

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I'll start!

How far along are you? 34 1/2 weeks (one of the last September mamas.... EDD the 27th)!

How much weight have you gained so far? If this isn't your first, is this more or less than previous pregnancies? I have gained about 40 lbs so far. But I still have the biggest 5 or so weeks to go! With Ayla I gained about 63, but she was a big baby and I lost all the weight within about 2 months (except 2 cause of my big breasts!
)! So I don't feel badly about it.

Have you gotten a linea negra? If this isn't your first, did you get one in previous pregnancies? I haven't gotten one this time, but had one last time!


What symptoms are bothering you the most right now? I am having some mad hip and tailbone pain, and my sciatic nerve is being compressed which can be quite debilitating at times. It's okay when I'm at home and can relax, but when I'm in the grocery store and limping around leaning on the cart, people look at me like I'm crazy! Also, the BH contractions that push the baby down onto my bladder and the swift cervical punches aren't so pleasant either!

What symptoms do you enjoy the most? I love to have a big, round belly. The way I am carrying this time is a lot different than with Ayla. This time I have nothing but a humungous watermelon on my front (well it's sort of down between my legs at this point too!), and I think it's cute. I love to see my profile in store windows etc. Also, this isn't really a "symptom", but I am loving my daughter interacting with the belly ("my sister")! I love talking to her about the birth, and having her kiss and snuggle my belly.

What are some of you fears as the time approaches? My only real fear is that I will have a much bigger baby than last time. Ayla was only about 9lbs, but I can tell and feel that this one will be much larger. I am worried because I had a lot of trouble pushing Ayla out. I mean, it's not a true fear because I know it will be fine and babe will be born. I just don't want another 3rd degree tear! My other fear is that Ayla will get scared at the birth and be unable to watch her sister be born, but I don't think that will happen!


What are you most excited about as the time approaches? I am excited to have another wonderful birth! I can't wait until the day I start feeling contractions and can start baking a cake, filling up the birth tub, telling Ayla that her sister will be born today! I can't wait to see my beautiful baby, and kiss her sweet little body and wrap her in a newborn diaper and kimono and stay in bed all day!
 

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How far along are you?34w5d---due on the 26th

How much weight have you gained so far? If this isn't your first, is this more or less than previous pregnancies? Its weird that I've only gained 15lbs but I've lost about 15lbs as well because my first trimester was when i put on alot. I still feel like a beached whale

Have you gotten a linea negra? If this isn't your first, did you get one in previous pregnancies?yeah that was the first thing I noticed

What symptoms are bothering you the most right now?achy back, uncomfortable to sleep at night, swollen feet

What symptoms do you enjoy the most?my breasts because I always considered myself lacking in that area, I wouldn't consider this a symptom but I love when I feel my lil man move around because it lets me know everything is going fine. Although it hurts sometimes I can manage.

What are some of you fears as the time approaches? Am I going to have a big baby, epidural,emergency c-section, constractions

What are you most excited about as the time approaches? becoming a mom, meeting my lil man, being able to look at my feet again, pre-maternity clothes
 

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How far along are you? Almost 37 weeks

How much weight have you gained so far? If this isn't your first, is this more or less than previous pregnancies? First pg - gained a total of around 20 lbs to date

Have you gotten a linea negra? If this isn't your first, did you get one in previous pregnancies? Nope - I'm surprised!

What symptoms are bothering you the most right now? - Achey back, on and off contractions, and loose stools. Plus the morning sickness which still hasn't stopped!

What symptoms do you enjoy the most? - Probably the baby moving - it's so neat!

What are some of you fears as the time approaches? - Mostly fears of the hospital {I hate those places}, and fears that something will go wrong because of my back problems.

What are you most excited about as the time approaches? - seeing my little grl for the first time!
 

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How far along are you? 38 weeks today!!

How much weight have you gained so far? If this isn't your first, is this more or less than previous pregnancies? if you count from when i started gaining its 28-29 if you count from pre pg weight its 21-22.

Have you gotten a linea negra? If this isn't your first, did you get one in previous pregnancies? lightly both times

What symptoms are bothering you the most right now? hips, lower back, pubic bone and all throughtout there

What symptoms do you enjoy the most? shes really starting to pop through with legible (ok you know what i mean) parts and i can almost grab them but its kinda fun poking her and seeing reactions....she a real person with feelings and not just a lump!!


What are some of you fears as the time approaches? that i will go over my due date alot. ds was 11 days over according to conception date.....and we did natural induction....i don't/can't (physically and mentally) handle that much overage this time around.

What are you most excited about as the time approaches? that my family will be growing.....that i will have a sweet new baby to enjoy without having to worry about whats going to happen to "us". laboring with my dh and his reactions to this baby.
 

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How far along are you? 37 w 4 days
How much weight have you gained so far? If this isn't your first, is this more or less than previous pregnancies? 24 lbs

Have you gotten a linea negra? If this isn't your first, did you get one in previous pregnancies? No.

What symptoms are bothering you the most right now? Contractions! (I seem to be in labor!!)

What symptoms do you enjoy the most? Increased libido.

What are some of you fears as the time approaches? Being just the two of us, my dh and me.

What are you most excited about as the time approaches? Finally birthing this little being! And not being so pregnant!
 

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- How far along are you?
I'm 34 weeks, 5 days.

- How much weight have you gained so far?
So far I've gained 10 pounds.

- If this isn't your first, is this more or less than previous pregnancies?
This is my first full term preg, the other only lasted 12 weeks, and in that time I gained no weight whatsoever - I lost some


- Have you gotten a linea negra?
I'm going to sound really stupid but I had to look that up just now
: And no, haven't had it... Or gotten it....

- What symptoms are bothering you the most right now?
Haha, bring on the list:
  • The way I can hardly breathe and the diaphram kicks
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  • The aching - My hips, my back, my sholders....
  • The CONSTANT peeing. I WANT MY BLADDER BACK!!
  • The fact I can only eat small amounts at a time otherwise I throw them up.
  • The not sleeping!!
  • The feeling uncomfy, ALL THE TIME.
  • The difficulty I experience whenever I try to do things like put on shoes
  • The way I have to psych myself up everytime I wanna get up...
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- What symptoms do you enjoy the most?
As much as it can cause me pain, I do love feeling her moving round, and I love tickling her little butt when it sticks out! And I love how satisfied I get after cleaning..!

- What are some of you fears as the time approaches?
That I won't be able to find or get hold of anyone when I go into labour... And I'll have to give birth without anyone there (Well other than my MW)
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- What are you most excited about as the time approaches?
MEETING HER!!!
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And getting my bladder back
 

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How far along are you?38 weeks tomorrow

How much weight have you gained so far? If this isn't your first, is this more or less than previous pregnancies? I have gained 33 pounds this time and I am totally excited about it. With DD I gained 45 and it took alot of work for me to loose the weight. I think I have one of those bodies that like to hold onto fat while BFing, instead of losing it!

Have you gotten a linea negra? If this isn't your first, did you get one in previous pregnancies? I did last time, not this time...kinda wierd I think

What symptoms are bothering you the most right now? My right hip wont stay where it is supposed to be and keeps floating about 2 inches higher than my left causing all the muscles to be stretched out and a constant nagging pain wrapping all the way around my leg to my butt. I am also getting really pissed about getting up every 1 1/2 hours to pee during the night. I can't wait for the baby to get here so I can get some sleep.


What symptoms do you enjoy the most? I am enjoying my BH contractions alot right now because it makes me feel like my uterus is working really hard and labor is really close...

What are some of you fears as the time approaches? The #1 freak out, actually the only thing bothering me really, is that the MW's won't get here before the baby does. I am not the UC type
. Also I would really like to go into labor in the daytime-more energy around.

What are you most excited about as the time approaches?[/QUOTE] Seeing DD's face when she meets her new sibling
 

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How far along are you?36+3

How much weight have you gained so far? If this isn't your first, is this more or less than previous pregnancies? Around 26 pounds, so far. UGH! with #1 it was 17 and #2 it was 23 but I started out 40 and 20 pounds heavier respectivly.

Have you gotten a linea negra? If this isn't your first, did you get one in previous pregnancies?Nope...never have had one

What symptoms are bothering you the most right now?Hips, Insomnia, lack of the ability to chase the older two (they've had more TV lately so I feel like a bad momma)

What symptoms do you enjoy the most? during the second trimester the increased sex drive... so did DH
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What are some of you fears as the time approaches?My recoccuring fear is that I'm not in good enough shape to birth at home... it is silly since I started in MUCH better shape than I've been in for this one and I gave birth to the other two with no drugs in a hospital... this home birth stuff should be a breeze right?!?!

What are you most excited about as the time approaches? Learning what the new personality is. The other two were so different personality wise even at 2 hours old. It is so neat seeing them be little individuals at such an early stage.

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How far along are you? 35 weeks

How much weight have you gained so far? If this isn't your first, is this more or less than previous pregnancies? Almost 40 lbs already, or 45 if you count the 5 I lost and then gained in the first tri, gained 40 total last time

Have you gotten a linea negra? If this isn't your first, did you get one in previous pregnancies? I got a dark one last time and just a light one this time.

What symptoms are bothering you the most right now? That I can't tolerate the heat at all and I feel as though Ive wasted my summer. Heartburn *everytime* I eat grains. That I dont fit any of my maternity stuff anymore and dont want to buy new stuff for only 5-ish more weeks. That I absoluty cannot sit in any comforable position. As soon as I bend my torso, I get a butt pressing into my ribs and feet poking straight out of my side. I do a lot of standing/walking and bouncing on an excercize ball, but cant sit in a chair or on the couch!

What symptoms do you enjoy the most? I love actually looking pregnant this time, I have a huge full round belly! I was as large at 30 weeks this time as I was full term with my dd (41.5 weeks) and NO STRETCHMARKS this time around! Yet anyways...


What are some of you fears as the time approaches? Im afriad that dd will miss the birth because it is IMPOSSIBLE to wake her from sleep, the times we have accomplished it, it results in massive looong temper tantrums which I cant deal with in labor. Also fearing taking on the staircase after the birth


What are you most excited about as the time approaches? Meeting my baby, finding out who this quiet gentle little person is, the birth, the newborn smell and the tiny sounds they make.
 

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How far along are you? 37 weeks, 6 days!

How much weight have you gained so far? If this isn't your first, is this more or less than previous pregnancies?27. It is a little less, I think, but not much. I think I gained about 30 total with the first.

Have you gotten a linea negra? If this isn't your first, did you get one in previous pregnancies?No and no.

What symptoms are bothering you the most right now? Insomnia, totally. I had it last pregnancy, but this time I've got a toddler waking me up every morning.


What symptoms do you enjoy the most?Feeling her squirm around.

What are some of you fears as the time approaches?Currently, it is that this cold I have is going to turn into another sinus infection just as I go into labor. I've been so sick this pregnancy and I'm concerned it'll affect my ability to get through the birth.

What are you most excited about as the time approaches? Meeting my little girl, and watching DD's reaction to her.
 

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How far along are you? 35w6d

How much weight have you gained so far? If this isn't your first, is this more or less than previous pregnancies? 22 pounds so far, last time I gained 33 pounds total (37w6d) so it will definatly be less. I actually lost a few pounds a few weeks back & now I am having a hard time gaining & eating too.
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Have you gotten a linea negra? If this isn't your first, did you get one in previous pregnancies? Nope, didn't last time either

What symptoms are bothering you the most right now? My back & hips hurt!! Well that and lack of appetite

What symptoms do you enjoy the most? Because I am having a hard time gaining right now (a first EVER!!!) I am letting myself eat pretty much whatever sounds good, within reason of course

What are some of you fears as the time approaches? My mw is on vacation til 9/1 so I am afraid I'll go into labor before that & also that baby will come to fast & DH will have to deliver the baby. But my BIGGEST worry is becomeing the mom of 2,
especially 2 boys!

What are you most excited about as the time approaches? Meeting my sweet little guy. Seeing what he looks like, seeing DS & DH's reactions & just holding our new addition.
 

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How far along are you? 35+3

How much weight have you gained so far? If this isn't your first, is this more or less than previous pregnancies? 30 even. Same as last pg, don't remember the first. I'm still 25Lbs or so less at this point than I was with DD2

Have you gotten a linea negra? If this isn't your first, did you get one in previous pregnancies? Nope. Only had it with the first DD.

What symptoms are bothering you the most right now? Insomnia & achy hips.

What symptoms do you enjoy the most? My big round belly that looks like a big watermellon! Both of my last pgs I was alot more overweight than this time and I looked so fat...

What are some of you fears as the time approaches? That I won't be able to let go when I really need to.

What are you most excited about as the time approaches? Meeting the little one that we've dreamed about and waited for for so long. Seeing how we all fit together.

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A few topics/questions:

How far along are you? 36w6d (edd 9/11/06)

How much weight have you gained so far? If this isn't your first, is this more or less than previous pregnancies? I've gained 12lb so far. This is less than two of my pregnancies and more than my last pregnancy where I gained 10lb with twins.

Have you gotten a linea negra? If this isn't your first, did you get one in previous pregnancies? Nope! I've never had this with any of my pregnancies

What symptoms are bothering you the most right now? Peeing every ten minutes or less
: SPD, and just feeling so full of baby that I can hardly breathe! But, I'm still not ready to be done yet!

What symptoms do you enjoy the most? My big huge belly and baby kicks!

What are some of you fears as the time approaches? I don't have any fears. I feel totally calm and excited about the labor and birth of this baby. It's the first time I've ever felt this way about any of my pregnancies! Must be because I'm homebirthing this time


What are you most excited about as the time approaches? I'm super excited to find out if we're having a boy or girl. I'm also very excited to just go through the whole birth process, painful contractions and all! I cannot wait to start nursing this little one either
 

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How far along are you?

36 weeks.

How much weight have you gained so far? If this isn't your first, is this more or less than previous pregnancies?

29 lbs at my appointment last Wednesday. I dunno what I was at the same point last pregnancy, but my max was 44 lbs, & I really don't think I'm gonna pack on 15 in 4 weeks.


Have you gotten a linea negra? If this isn't your first, did you get one in previous pregnancies?

Yes. And yes. I was just talking w/DH about this yesterday...it sorta seems like I had DD when my linea ***** got up to the top of my uterus. But I don't really remember & he didn't have any idea either.

What symptoms are bothering you the most right now?

Difficulty sleeping. But even that isn't a big deal. Oh, and my fingertips itch something awful when I first wake up in the mornings, but I'm not sure if that's pregnancy related or not.

What symptoms do you enjoy the most?

Wiggly belly!

What are some of you fears as the time approaches?

Handling two kiddos at once. And the logistics of postpartum stuff (birth certificate, health care, etc) after a homebirth with a lay midwife in a state where direct entry midwifery isn't legal.

What are you most excited about as the time approaches?

Meeting baby, of course!
 

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How far along are you? 34 wk 5 days

How much weight have you gained so far? If this isn't your first, is this more or less than previous pregnancies?
10 pounds
Have you gotten a linea negra? If this isn't your first, did you get one in previous pregnancies? Yes.

What symptoms are bothering you the most right now? Nausea, cramping, sore achey back, stabbing cervix pain, extreme constipation

What symptoms do you enjoy the most? I guess feeling her squiggle around is kind of cool. She does it so much and so violently it's annoying more often then not though.

What are some of you fears as the time approaches? That I won't be able to handle labor and I will fail at being a mom. That I will suck at it and create a screwed up child.

What are you most excited about as the time approaches? Holding my baby. And snuggling it when it's being cute and not crying.. not that I won't hold it when it's crying..
 

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How far along are you?
36 weeks today

How much weight have you gained so far? If this isn't your first, is this more or less than previous pregnancies?
LOL 4 pounds as of last weigh-in, but I'm guessing I've gained 5 pounds in the past 2 weeks ... or at least it feels that way. Prev pregnancies were both around 15 lbs.

Have you gotten a linea negra? If this isn't your first, did you get one in previous pregnancies?
Nope! But yes for #1, also no for #2.

What symptoms are bothering you the most right now?
Extreme emotions
This is not kicking, this is a hostile escape attempt
Aversion to all foods WHILE AT THE SAME TIME extreme hunger
Always being hot, except for when I'm freezing
Feet falling asleep everytime I sit on the floor with ds and dd

What symptoms do you enjoy the most?
Right now, not much.
I do enjoy that I really really look pregnant and most people are super nice to me!

What are some of you fears as the time approaches?
That dh will be out of town when I go in to labor. That the baby will come so quickly no-one will be able to get here in time and I'll have baby on my own in the bathtub while ds and dd freak out.

What are you most excited about as the time approaches?[/QUOTE]
Moving on to What's Next. Also finding out if it's a boy or a girl!
 

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I have no idea what's wrong with this crazy thing
: I've tried 5 times over the last two days to reply to this thread and every time it tells me I need to write at least one word. The only problem is, I wrote about 100 words!

Crazy crazy!

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How far along are you?
35 ish weeks

How much weight have you gained so far? If this isn't your first, is this more or less than previous pregnancies?
24lbs this time, 20 lbs last time, 45 lbs both times before that

Have you gotten a linea negra? If this isn't your first, did you get one in previous pregnancies?
not this time, did with #1 and #2

What symptoms are bothering you the most right now?
BH getting really strong, last night I actually had to breathe through them, they woke me right up!!
Getting tierd so easily.
Having to get up in the night to pee.
Not being able to eat as much as I'd like to
Being sooooo emotional
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What symptoms do you enjoy the most?
Feeling sweet baby moving around
feeling more connected to my DH and kids
hightened intuition
nesting

What are some of you fears as the time approaches?
well, I guess its losing control of myself during labor, but then I know at some point I'll feel that way and it won't last....I've come to a place in the past week where my fears seem to be resolving themselves. As soon as I start to think about what I'm afraid of a calmness comes with some sort of an answer that eases my fears, I am so thankful because a few weeks ago I was having a much harder time

What are you most excited about as the time approaches?
Our baby!!!! Being able to labor with my DH and kids. Connecting with the part of myself that trust the birthing process and flowing through our beautiful birth
 

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How far along are you?
37 weeks!

How much weight have you gained so far? If this isn't your first, is this more or less than previous pregnancies?
22ish pounds

Have you gotten a linea negra? If this isn't your first, did you get one in previous pregnancies?
Yes, but I've always had it, it's just more pronouced now.

What symptoms are bothering you the most right now?
The waddling. Th twitchy, restless legs at night.

What symptoms do you enjoy the most?
Feeling the kicks and movement, still. My big belly! I'm going to miss being PG.

What are some of you fears as the time approaches?
Getting a non-intervention birth in a hospital setting.

What are you most excited about as the time approaches?
Meeting this little one! How much our lives are going to change. Finding out if it's a boy or a girl!
 
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