[praying_4_3rd_at36]

i am about 5 weeks along and just got a diagnosis of breast cancer today-- i'm in total shock and disbelief-- they are telling me my entire left breast will need to be removed-- i am so scared of all these factors involved-- i'm afraid for my unborn baby, my 2 young girls (ages 9 and 4), losing a breast and how i will deal with it all-- i don't feel like i'm strong enough to go thru this-- is there anyone else out there that knows anything about this type of diagnosis-- i could use some advice and mostly prayers

 

[Samjm]

I'm sorry that I don't have any info to give you on your diagnoses, but I couldn't read this without sending you some

You will get through this!

 

[tiffany21074]

i hope you find the answers you are looking for. Stay strong mama

 

[5thAttempt]

I could not read w/o responding too. Hugs and prayers...

I saw a TV program a year ago or so about the woman in your situation. She choose to keep the baby, did chemo and delivered a baby girl. This was her first and only child. However she had to modify her treatment and she was not as agressive with it as she could. She said that some cancer treatment center are more cooperative for woman in your situation.

On a positive note my MIL was diagnozed with cancer 15 years ago, did her treatment and she is cancer free up to now. Early detection is a key. It is hard decision you have to make mama, especially since you have 2 little ones already to look after.

 

[LeosMama]

Hugs to you mama. I don't know anything to help you particularly. Please try to find support from a physician or support group who will be sympathetic to the pregnancy and the unborn baby.

Good luck and lots of prayers for you.

 

[praying_4_3rd_at36]

thank you ladies for your hugs and words-- i am just so terrified and i haven't told my parents yet-- they don't even know that i'm pregnant yet-- i can't get up with them but don't feel like putting them thru all this worry- you know?

 

[SaraBravo]

my prayers are with you and your family. god will take care ofyou all and your unborn baby. tell your parents if you think they can help you and support you in your time of need.
kisses and hugs

 

[MsElle07]

I'm sorry, mama.

 

[Ruthla]

 

[daniedb]

Oh, I'm so very sorry about your news.

I, also, am information-less, but you definitely have my prayers and support through your journey. Please keep us updated as you can, I'm sure that we would all be interested in keeping up with you and let us know if there's anything we can do to help.

 

[daniedb]

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Originally Posted by praying_4_3rd_at36 thank you ladies for your hugs and words-- i am just so terrified and i haven't told my parents yet-- they don't even know that i'm pregnant yet-- i can't get up with them but don't feel like putting them thru all this worry- you know?

Oh, hon, there's nothing YOU did or YOU can do to cause this- and feeling guilty will only divert energy and emotion that is so much better spent elsewhere. Think of it as if your grown child were to get bad news, it would never occur to you that she would feel guilty to tell you, because of COURSE you would want to know, right? Please don't let that feeling keep you from sharing the news with friends and family that can support and help you, that's what they are there for. We have a support system for that reason...support!

 

[kristenburgess]

: sweet mama. I couldn't read without responding. I am praying for you and your little one.

ITA with Danielle, you do not need to feel guilty at all! Your friends and family can help support you through this fearful and difficult time in your life. Do reach out and get the help that you need.

Again you are in my thoughts and prayers as you seek the answers and the care that you and your babe need.

 

[rainbowfairymomma]

Oh mama

I'm so sorry. I wish I could give some info or something. Sending lots of thoughts and prayers

 

[meggles]

I'm so sorry you are having to deal with this. I know someone whose mother was diagnosed with invasive cervical cancer very early on in her pregnancy with him. The doctors wanted her to abort, but she wouldn't. She carried to term, delivered a healthy son, and had a hysterectomy immediately following the birth because of the cancer. It's 25 years later, and both mom and son are doing wonderfully.

You are strong enough to handle this, even if you think you can't. Don't be afraid to get second or third opinions about treatment options and definitely call on your family and friends for their support.

Best wishes to you and congrats on your pregnancy.

 

[ConfusedPrincess]

I'm sending you vibes of light and strength. I wish you the best through your pregnancy and during this chapter in your life. I don;t know much about breast cancer but I have heard of soo many women who get through it and come out much stronger. May you find peace at this time.

 

[LizaBear]

I'm so sorry

 

[pumpkinsmama]

http://news.yahoo.com/s/hsn/20060817...uringpregnancy

I know you are still in your first tri, but saw that today as well as your post.

s: my heart goes out to you.

 

[deleria]

Thinking of you, mama. Stay strong for you and your little ones, ok?

 

[lotusdebi]

Keeping you and yours in my thoughts.

 

[zjande]

Oh mama, I don't have anything helpful to add but I couldn't read without replying. I am so sorry to hear you're going through this! How absolutely stressful. I'm so sorry.