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Why does every nurse I speak to sound shocked that I'm still nursing my 16mo old even though I'm pregnant. Once they verify that they heard me correctly, they then ask if I'm planning on weaning soon!

The doctors in the office have been supportive, but I still can't get over the fact that they act as if they've never met a pregnant woman who also nurses?!?
 

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They probably haven't. I read in "Mothering Your Nursing Toddler" about a woman's doc who told her "for safety reasons" she'd have to wean when she went in for her first preggo check-up. She asked him how many women he'd cared for who nursed while pregnant and he said none! He also admitted he hadn't done any research on it. But he still told her it wasn't safe.
 

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The doctors in the office have been supportive, but I still can't get over the fact that they act as if they've never met a pregnant woman who also nurses?!?
They probably haven't.


Remember that most medical professionals have NO education in lactation at all.

-Angela
 

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I think that would be so hard. I was pregnant and nursing a toddler ( 2-3 yo
) twice and never had any Dr.s or nurses act like that was unusual. I'm sorry they are acting that way, and even sorrier if they truely haven't. The only time I was asked about weaning is when I had to take a drug to clear an ectopic pregnancy, and that was more extreme circumstances. In fact, when I nursed my children around my huge belly, they usually told me what a good mother I was and how lucky my new baby was! I think its very rude to ask you about weaning like that. Hang in there!
 

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My OB wasn't surprised that I was pregnant and nursing a one year old but he initially told me I would need to wean at 7 months. However, when I reached that point he tried to do some research and when he couldn't find anything in the "medical literature" he spoke with the hospital LC and then gave me the green light.

I have actually thought about buying a couple of copies of Jack Newman's "The Ulimate Book of Breastfeeding Answers" and Hilary Flower's "Adventures In Tandem Nursing", one of each for him and one of each for his waiting room.

I really liked him a lot and thought he was pretty "with it" but had no idea how mainstream he was (or for that matter how mainstream I was) until I nursed through my second pregnancy and used "Hypnobabies" in an effort at an unmedicated birth. However, he was pretty responsive to my needs and wishes and pretty accomodating as long as I was clear about what I wanted and gave him whatever info I had.
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I too am having the same problem. My DD is going to be 17 months the end od the week and I am going to be 11 weeks pg. Abi is mostly day/night weaned. We BF before I go to work, when I get home and before bed. The odd time on the weekend, I will BF before her nap. Everyone thinks that I am nuts and will 'need' a break before the new little on gets here. I enjoy our time and so does DD. I hate feeling the pressure to stop when neither of us are ready yet. I even had DD's ped tell me to wean, I don't think so! Ahhhh, thanks for letting me vent on the same issue!
 

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Doctors really frustrate me sometimes; why spout off about something when you're obviously uninformed?!

I had a doctor tell me once that my 2 year old was just sucking air. I said, well, how do you explain the fact that my 5 month old, who is nursing exclusively, has doubled his birthweight? His answer: my 5 month old was siphoning off all the fat (from that "air" in my breast) leaving none for his big sister.
: Who knew I had such a talented baby?!

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Anyway, to the OP:

If an OB are discouraging you from nursing while pregnant - a new OB may be best - or at the very least, yours needs an education! Unless you're at risk for pre-term labor, nursing during a pregnancy should not harm the new baby. Your OB should be more aware of the current position held by the American Academy of Family Physicians:

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Nursing Beyond Infancy
Breastfeeding should ideally continue beyond infancy, but this is currently not the cultural norm and requires ongoing support and encouragement. Breastfeeding during a subsequent pregnancy is not unusual. If the pregnancy is normal and the mother is healthy, breastfeeding during pregnancy is the woman's personal decision. If the child is younger than two years of age, the child is at increased risk of illness if weaned. Breastfeeding the nursing child after delivery of the next child (tandem nursing) may help to provide a smooth transition psychologically for the older child.

Source: American Academy of Family Physicians

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Can I Breastfeed During Pregnancy?

Yes. Simple as that answer appears, nursing during pregnancy presents issues to consider for a healthy and happy pregnancy.

Fears of miscarriage There is no evidence that nursing during pregnancy will cause a miscarriage. When a newborn begins breastfeeding, the suckling stimulates release of the hormone oxytocin into the mother's bloodstream. This hormone stimulates contractions in the breast (starting milkflow) and the uterus (expelling the afterbirth, while protecting mother against hemorrhage).

Experts maintain that oxytocin has much less effect on the uterus during pregnancy. Unless your pregnancy is term or the cervix is ripe, the released oxytocin stimulation is not sufficient to bring on labor.

Nutritional Needs A diet higher in calories and protein-rich foods is necessary because of extra energy needed to support pregnancy and breastfeeding. Choosing unprocessed foods to meet the caloric requirement is recommended.

Milk Supply After the first few months of pregnancy, the mother's milk supply may naturally reduce. The nursing infant may also experience a change in the taste of milk during mother's pregnancy and weaning may occur at this time.

Towards term, the milk will change to colostrum - that first milk vital for newborns. Following delivery, if the toddler remains breastfed, it is important the newborn is fed first to receive his/her fill of the nutritious colostrum. With proper rest and nutrition, the mother should not have a problem with supplying milk for both her nursing infant and toddler.

Breast Changes During pregnancy, the breasts become highly sensitive and breastfeeding may contribute to nipple pain. While non-pregnant nursing mothers have several alternatives when presented with nipple pain, a pregnant nursing mother's pain is usually due to internal hormonal changes, and her options for relief are limited.

Breastfeeding during pregnancy should be discussed with your physician.

Source: University of Nebraska Medical Center
 
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