We will be moving across the country in a month and I'm wondering what would be the best way to make this a smooth transition for my DD who is 18mo. She is already having a hard time with us getting rid of some stuff (she bawled for 5 minutes because I sold an old pair of tennis rackets this morning). I think the hardest part will be packing up her toys and books, which we will be shipping to our new place, and also her bed. I don't know if there is an easy way to do this without lots of tears, but if anyone has ideas or experience I would love to hear it. Thanks.