Is anyone else in this position. My 2nd dd is due 7-27 and ever since I announced the pregnancy mil and others have been really after my dd to be grown up. Also, lately I am getting a lot of unsolicited advice from said person about my parenting style, apparantly I am not allowing or encouraging my dd to be independent which is not true. I just don't believe she should be pushed just because of a new baby on the way. The final straw was when I got home from doctor appt today my mil railed into me about how my dd STILL doesn't know how to dress herself, and she doesn't know ANY OTHER toddlers her age who don't know how to dress and don't try to dress themselves. I informed her that she dresses herself at home when she feels like it. I am also told I MUST get rid of the binky before new baby comes and I MUST wean and on...and on......and on..... I feel really furious and maybe it is just my hormones id dont know???? Anyone who can relate??