First of all, I'm new here so I just wanted to say hi. I'm Heather-27 years old. My ds is Connor and he's 4.5 months old. I just got my pouch today and I am having the hardest time using it! When we go out, I usually use a snuggli and carry him in the front. I want to use the pouch with the hip carry primarily at home b/c the snuggli makes it awkward to get things done around the house. Anyway, I cannot get the hip carry right. I purchased the pouch b/c I heard it was much easier than the wrap. What am I doing wrong? How can you tell if it fits right? I'm really disappointed b/c I was looking SO forward to getting it so I could have a clean house again <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile"> Did anyone else have a hard time with it? Any helpful hints?