my ds is intact. when he was born at home, i had a placental retention and a lot of blood loss so was rushed to emergency. i wasn't able to change his diaper or care for him totally for about three days. my sil and dh did all diaper changes. dh knew not to retract his foreskin. when i changed him i noticed that his foreskin was retracted over the head of his penis and am wondering if that is ever normal. i wasn't able to tell sil not to retract him when cleaning him, so i'm nervous now that she did. when i asked dh, he said that he never noticed her doing this, but wasn't there for ever diaper change. i've had a hard time coming to terms with our separation, so it's taken me this long to begin to question this. is it ever normal, and now that it's said and done, is there anything i need to worry about.