What about putting something near her in the bed that makes noise?? I can't even think of anything. Some rattles maybe or other toys that you will be able to hear (even if she's just crawling over them to escape
) My dd is 10 months and most times I hear her when she wakes up. We use a baby monitor in the room because like you I have a loud 3-year old and keeping the door open is not an option.
