<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> awwww...just your comment that you are crumbling broke my heart. I don't want anyone crumbling! Hugs to you!!<br><br>
I can definitely sense your husbands anger and meanness. In fact, it's pretty bad. So here's the interesting thing; I feel like he is being influenced by someone/something else. Potentially in laws or a co worker? I do feel like their is involvement of someone else in this situation. I'm not entirely sure that it's directed at you, although it could be. The energy is very funky and I'm having a difficult time seeing it all super clearly. But what I can tell you is that there is third party involvement. Either someone doesn't like you and is pressuring your dh, or someone or some situation is crappy right now for your dh and he's taking it out on you. Does that make sense? He has a very dark cloud hanging over him right now and he's very much bringing it into your home with him.<br><br>
Unfortunately, I am not seeing an ending to this soon. I feel like their are still rough waters ahead for you both. I want you to really see if you can figure out what or who is bothering him and see if he is open to getting some help whether that be on his own, or together as in counseling.<br>
I do see a pastor like person could be very beneficial and helpful. This person does feel like they have some kind of connection to you through your religion/spirituality. really it's your dh that needs the help first and foremost.<br><br>
Try surrounding you and your spouse in a bubble of love and peace. Do this consistently. Be open and receptive to all changes that may need to take place in order to shift what is going on in your marriage.<br><br>
I wish you the best!