Mmmmmmm. Well. I've attended births at...8 different hospitals, and I'd say five of those eight have between large and HUGE birthing units. My favorite hospital based birth place is an alternative birthing center with a regular L&D down the hall. THAT L&D happens to be the worst I've ever worked on, simply, I believe because the nurses try to "make up" for the fact that the ABC is in the same hospital!
Except for midwife attended births at two hospitals I attend at (including the MW's who catch at the ABC), they're pretty much what I now comprehend to be "normal" michigan birthing units. Granted, I usually enter the unit with a VERY in labor mama if I possibly can. Too, the mothers almost always have a birth plan, and...oh, I'd say that 99.9% of my clients are planning a no to low intervention birth (though her choice of birth place often precludes said plans, but I can't save them, they need to make their own choice). What do they get? Unless they or their partner are very vocal (or proactive and simply take it off when the 20 min strip has successfully been printed), constant EFM (nurses make it very clear that they're not "allowed" to listen to the doula, the words MUST come from the laboring woman") is the first place they start. If we come in at four or fewer centimeters, pitocin is almost gauranteed...I shoot for six to complete, for that reason, and thank goodness, it doesn't happen very often that I miss and we get there too soon.
At the birth, we literally have to physically keep some staff from taking healthy babies from mothers' chests before the mother is ready to give the baby up to be weighed. Little, quiet gestures, such as covering them both with a warmed blanket immediately after the birth helps...it's a visual and physical barrier.
The cord has been cut immediately in every single OB birth I've attended. One minute is a very long time for the OBs to wait. In one situation, the client had several conversations with the OB about delayed cord cutting, and said to me that the OB was totally up with their request, saying that she'd wait three minutes (!) to cut the cord. Fast forward to cesarean from maternal exaustion(baby's head was acynclitic and transverse). Doc cuts the cord immediately, of course--it's a cesarean now. Baby ends up in an oxygen tent for three days because her lungs wouldn't inflate, and then when they did, one collapsed.
If mom needs to be stitched, the doc insists that baby be taken away from mom.
At one hospital, baths are mandatory for baby. (what?!) Mandatory.
At another, if you refuse eye goop, CPS is called and a file is started. Yes, really.
At another, the nurses are so sure that first time mothers have no clue about their body that I have had clients (yes, plural) say that they are pushing to have the nurses say that it can't possibly be time to push, and then have the baby crown with no attendants at all in the room...and one come in grunt pushing and have the nurse tell her to calm down and be quiet, so that they could "assess whether she's even in labor or not." *sigh*
So...is this really the state of childbirth? I think so.
Every once in a while, we meet a wonderful nurse or an unusually and helpful and THINKING OB, and those are the days at work to be cherished. My goal, regardless of SOP or cranky staff, is to get the laboring woman her optimal birth if it's at all possible. It can sure be a lot of work! But boy, do I love my job.