At home we use a baby bjoern and DD absolutely loves it. Until recently we never tried using an actual toilet and we just put her in diapers when we went out. Well, the other day we were at a mall and they had a kid's toilet. We had gone to change her but she was dry so we figured why not try the kid's toilet, right? Well, the stupid thing had an automatic flush on it that went off before she even sat down and she flipped out! After that she won't go near any other toilets (except ours at home). Any thoughts on how to help stop being so scared of toilets? I'd really like her to be able to use toilets when we're away. We've noticed that she's been holding it when we go out and she's gotten to where she HATES using her diaper so I know she's not very comfortable if we leave home.