Bear with me, this is somewhat explicit, but hopefully ok to post here. So, ordinarily I have no problem with sex during pregnancy, at any stage. Just before 11 weeks, I went on a fairly strenuous/tiring outing with DD and then the next morning had sex with DH. Soon thereafter, I started bleeding and bled for 5-6 days. It was terrifying. I had some mild cramping, too. But it all stopped and an u/s showed the fetus was doing fine, so I was very relieved. Since then, I have had two orgasms (not from penetrative sex) and both times had *very* slight signs of bleeding afterwards -- like just slightly pink-tinged CM the next day, or some sort of ambiguously dark discharge. I am now having a hard time feeling okay about having sex again. It's weird, I guess I don't rationally think it will cause problems, but I just get skittish, and start thinking about that horrible few days when I thought I was miscarrying, and then that's not exactly conducive to a sexy mood. Any suggestions? I feel like I'm ready to move on, just having a hard time actually doing so... (DH has been very understanding and basically says to let him know whenever I'm ready.) Help??