I was wondering if any of you have scheduled one on one time with each child. I ask, b/c I often get overwhelmed by my two boys (4.5 and 3 yr old) when they are together. They are always whining, pushing and bickering. I am not used to this, my brothers and I were not THAT bad compared to my kids, but my DH tells me that to him it's, "normal." I noticed a couple of months ago that during times when DH and I split up the kids (I take one and he takes one), my kids act like angels and instead of feeling frantic and annoyed, I really enjoy my time with that particular child when we are go out together w/o the other siblings. It's like a night and day difference. So, now I am thinking that we need to do more one on one time with each child. Do any of you do this with each of your kids? If so, can you share what kinds of activities you do and how often you do this? Thanks!